Catch Him and Keep Him by Christian Carter - I HATE THIS DAMN BOOK!!!! it is not worth the money!
Why Men Withdraw, And What To Do About It
Alright so I lied, but I wanted you to read this :) I’m best friends with ‘that guy’ lol and was asked to write this review as he felt it wouldn’t be fair for him to write it being a guy and all. I stumbled across this eBook a while back I have told a lot of my girlfriends who have been having trouble with relationships about this book. While this may sound like a glowing review, it’s the honest truth, I love this book and think you should all get it!!! Alright so about Christian Carter’s book, Catch him and Keep Him Whats it about? Is it worth the money? And most importantly: Is he cute?
Firstly and most important, yes, he is cute. Christian Carter is good looking in a California surfer kind of way. From his sun-kissed fair hair to his slim and toned build. He’s a great guy and a great catch. The kind of guy who was liked by everyone in high school. Would pay attention to any girl, regardless of how pretty she was and make her feel good 
So now onto the book. Christian Carter starts the book by describing why he wrote it:
“When I first put “Catch Him And Keep Him” out there for women to read, I was honestly nervous…The information in this eBook will save you years of time, missed love opportunities and wasted energy. Most women go through their entire lives never learning how to get what they truly want from their relationships. But it doesn’t have to be this way.“
Hmmm…sounds too good to be true? Yeah I was thinking the same. Than I started reading it. The first thing I noticed was how much of a ‘guy’ Christian Carter was. Duh, right? But its true, he isn’t like you’re gay best friend or your single girlfriends giving you advice when they can barely stay with any guy themselves. This is a man telling you straight about the inner workings of the male mind. Scary stuff…stuff that we don’t really want to hear. Well sit back and enjoy the ride Its written from the perspective of a good-looking guy who is a great catch. Exactly the kind of insight we girls need. Its kind of like if a model or beautiful actress wrote a book on how to get girls.
According to Carter men live in a different reality, they think differently. While all of us would love if men could be more like us: want to have long conversations, go shopping, or be able to share our emotions. Unfortunately that just isn’t the case and Carter brutally but honestly tells us our job as women is to understand how men think so we can attract the kind of man we want. Honestly, don’t all of us want a real man, someone who we can trust, will take care of us and make us feel safe?
Here’s one of the statements that really dug deep into my heart in the book:
You’d be crazy to take the close relationship and love you want to find and gamble it away by betting on a guy whose greatest qualification is that he makes you feel attracted to him.” (p.33)
Why Men Withdraw, And What To Do About It
Wow :O That’s about as close to the truth about relationships as you’re going to get. Christian doesn’t pull any punches and its exactly what I needed. Some of the most useful advice was around the kinds of guys who are ‘players’ and will steal your heart and tear it to bits. He will challenge you to examine why you’re drawn to unavailable men; strong, dominant, bad boys….exactly the kind of men who will make terrible relationship material. This stuff is a swift kick in the butt. You will never look at guys the same way again. In fact after reading this I haven’t allowed myself to be taken advantage of again. No more nights spent out at the bar, lonely and emotional looking for love. Waking up in a strange room with your dress crumpled on the floor. Trying to dress quickly in the bathroom and reapply some foundation. Making your escape, hoping that not too many people will notice that you’re wearing the same clothes from the night before..
Carter details the different between girls that are seen as casual hookups vs. longterm relationship material by guys. Ladies, if you sleep with guys hoping for emotional intimacy as a result, you need to read this.
I probably shouldn’t be sharing this but I really want you to see the value in this book, so here are the top 3 mistakes women make with men, taken from the book:
Mistake #1 – Being “needy” or “insecure” with a man.
A man has an “insecurity alert” and women can set it off in six different ways. Even the most confident gal can “accidentally” set off one of these signs. Sometimes that’s all it takes to never get a second date with a great guy..
Here are 3 of them:
1 Talking about your ex-boyfriend, especially if you say nasty things about him
2 Being derogatory towards other women, calling girls whore, sluts, and the like
3 Being clingy and hanging off a guy, too much physical contact can be bad..
The other three are even worse, but I want you to read the book so I’m not going to share them 
Men can separate an emotional and sexual connection in their head and it takes a special skill to blend these together in a mans mind. Men are out for more than sex, and the women who can capture his heart will have fulfilled a man EMOTIONALLY and SEXUALLY. The best part is the woman gets that same fulfillment for herself.
Mistake #3 - Not being able to size up a man’s “Relationship Potential”
Most women use attraction as the measure of a mans potential. Attraction is important, but also DANGEROUS. Our logic circuits can be overrided with a strong sense of attraction. This could lead us to ignore our instincts and lead to us overlooking our partners faults.
I would recommend any girl reading this to at least try out “Catch Him and Keep Him” it comes with a money back guarantee. So what harm could it do to give it a chance? Check out Christian Carter’s: Catch Him and Keep Him All the best to you and yours
Why Men Withdraw, And What To Do About It
