friends with benefits MATE TO DATE IN 3 EASY STEPS
Have you ever had a friend that you had feelings for? Do you ever catch yourself staring at your friend when their not looking? Is there a part of you that is dying to get physical with your friend but are afraid of not being able to go back?
Alot of people say men and women can’t be friends. That one or both of them will eventually want more, relationships, dating, etc. Now the question is: will this ruin the friendship? Only if not done properly. There are certain steps and preventative measures that need to be taken. So lets examine this problem with some introspective questions:
1. Are you only interested in your friend as you have trouble finding dates and feel this is your only outlet? If this is the case I would recommend you get yourself an understanding of attraction. I believe everyone can attract the mate they want if they educate themselves on the opposite sex. Ask yourself honestly, how much do you understand of what makes the opposite sex physically and emotionally attracted.
Now for a girl the physical for guys is easy, boobs & legs. But what about emotionally? Do you know what guys look for emotionally from a girl and how to win over those great catches that will make amazing long term relationship material. For a guy, girls seem like crazy emotional psychopaths in heels. They are up one minute, down the next, they seem to be attracted to the douchiest of douches imaginable. But is that just your perception? I can honestly tell you that once I understood where girls are coming from, I competely sympathize with their plight. I mean so few guys understand how women work that when you do you are in demand and it is so easy to handle girls they want to be treated, with little to no effort on your part. I would highly recommend you get smart and get an education on attraction.
