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Are you always caught without the right thing to say to girls? Ever feel like if you could just come up with girl pickup lines you would be able to get the ball rolling? How would you like to have the right thing to say no matter what the situation or girl?
To begin with I am NOT going to tell you any pickup lines or approaches. You’re probably wondering why you should read this article. Well with the right mindset the right ‘line’ or thing to say will naturally come into your head without any effort on your part.
I guess this is my version of the give a man fish vs. teach a man to fish proverb. Of course fishing in this case means picking up girls. I think for most people it’s not necessarily the right line that stops them it’s the uncomfortable feeling in the pit of their stomach. When you’re hanging out with your friends don’t you feel that there is no pressure to say the right thing. Aren’t you incredibly funny and entertaining without trying. Well all you have to do is have the same comfort level when picking up girls.
Now what I find interesting is that a lot of guys think that if they have that perfect line and get the ball rolling it will all sort itself out. Well that’s not really true, in reality you need a sweet line to meet a girl, followed by another sweet line to keep her attention, followed by another sweet line to perhaps get her phone number, followed by…well you get the picture. In fact the only way to consistently meet and date girls is to be natural and comfortable with them and have your own natural self provide the ‘lines’ or personality that you need.
Well great, how do I do that? The secret to being natural in front of women is to leave your ego behind you. Don’t use her validation as the only reason to approach her. If you see her and want to meet her than simply go up and approach yourself and think about nothing else. Ask yourself: ‘What do I want to share with her about me?’, ‘What do I want to know about her?’, ‘If we were already friends what would we talk about?’. The only real difference in talking to a girl vs. a guy or a friend should be intent. In other words your conversations should be the same, with the only difference being you moving the interaction towards its natural conclusion. If you are just meeting her than think of this as a try before you buy situation, go in thinking I want to find out if this girl is cool. Getting her number or making instant plans should only enter your head when it’s appropriate within the conversation.
This may sound incredibly simple but very difficult to implement. Try going through some of the other articles on my site for advice on specific social situations. For a very complete understanding of attraction and exactly what triggers it in girls, try looking at Double Your Dating. It’s a program designed to explain attraction and give you that natural understanding that will make meeting and dating girls a lot easier and more natural. They offer a free trial and newsletter so no reason not to meet your potential. Forget about girl pickup lines, become naturally attractive and have the social life your deserve.
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