grind dance WITHOUT HER RUNNING AWAY
Lets keep the nightclub creepy factor to a minimum. Dancefloors are perhaps the most fickle place in the club. Confidence, looks, dance skills win the day here. In that order. There are a few ways to engage in grinding, here’s how to get girls to grind dance at nightclubs:
The stealth approach - a.k.a sneak up from behind while she’s not looking. While this approach is unlikely to lead anywhere after a dance and may be uncomfortable for some girls, it is the textbook easy way to engage in grinding. There are better ways but if you do decide to go this route, look for girls in pairs or groups where there friends are already grinding. These girls need to prove to their friends they are attractive and will grind dance with you simply for the social proof.
The copycat - another way to get yourself into a grinding position is to find a girl and slowly work your way into her space. You do this by dancing in front of her with a smile. You should be about half a meter away and start to synchronize your movements with her. So if she is pushing forward you lean back, and than you push forward. You should than start leading the movements and if she follows, grab her hand and spin her around and pull her into you. Proceed to grind dance.
Fortune favors the brave - the best way to engage in grinding is to engage in grinding. Sounds easy right? Well it is, simply go straight up to a girl, grab her waist or her forearm and pull her into you to grind dance. This has to be done with a smile and NO hesitation. Any hint of fear or reluctance will ruin this move. You also cannot orbit around her pumping yourself up to do it. It has to be immediate after you see the girl; otherwise it will color your approach with neediness. This approach will also likely give you the highest success rate in continuing the interaction off the dancefloor 
Overall the dancefloor is a tricky place, you have to be very sure of yourself. I suggest taking introductory hip hop and salsa lessons so that you at least know how to move out there by yourself and with a girl. I also suggest doing this with at most one other person, having a team of guys ogling the girl you grind dance with from the side is not attractive. Keep in mind that confidence in this case overrides everything, a guy who is confident will outshine an excellent dancer. So don’t hesitate.
Using these methods you can engage in some fun grind dance at your local nightclub. But wouldn’t it be amazing if you could understand the principles behind why certain methods work. If you could understand how attraction works. Not only would you know how to get girls to grind at nightclubs but you would be able to take them home too. A great primer on understanding attraction is Double Your Dating.
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