Magic of ‘Making Up’ or ‘Breaking Up’ what T W Jackson doesn’t want you to know.
SEX? When you should have sex during the reconciliation process.
To begin with I am sure everyone has gone through a messy and emotional breakup in their lives. Now when it was fresh and you were hurting I am sure many of you felt this was the end. There was no point in going on. But looking back perhaps it was for the best. I think everyone should evaluate whether they even want their partner back to begin with. That being said the information in Magic of Making Up by T W Jackson is useful both for making up with your ex as well as understanding why a relationship ended. Information is power and by learning the principles within the Magic of Making Up you can evaluate this for yourself.
So let’s look at some of the tactics or techniques within the program for the initial moments after a break up:
1. Argument avoidance technique – Allowing the situation to simmer down is pretty simple advice. It seems obvious but what the guide does is focus on why we tend to want to argue (ego, etc.) and why it is detrimental to a relationship. With logical understanding comes instinctual behavioral change I always say (alright I don’t say that, it’s true, but really who would say that in conversation?)
2. The eager beaver – Give the other person space!!!! I say it again give the other person space!!! If your ex felt strongly enough that she broke it off with you, this isn’t a game. And even if it is something that happened ion the moment they will come back and say they overreacted. According to the guide by treating it seriously you earn the respect of your spouse. And avoid turning a small bump into Mount Kilimanjaro.
3. Voice or Text message terrorism – An interesting fact for me was when the program talked about not badgering the other person with phone calls, text, emails, IM’s, etc. Its interesting because it mentions that people will use about any possible reason to get in touch when they are spurned. If you think about this it is so true.
4. The logic equation – Never try to reason with your ex right after a break up. This isn’t a logical issue, it is an emotional one. Especially right after a breakup.
5. Sharing is not always caring – Telling your ex what an emotional wreck you are and expecting him or her to fix you is universally unattractive. Don’t share how depressed or lonely you are. Have a positive and upbeat attitude and make them think things have never been better for you. This makes your ex realize what he/she originally liked in you. And while its seems counterintuitive: i.e. won’t they think I never cared about them. It works magic.
6. Sorry for the sake it – Being extremely apologetic is wimpy behavior and makes you look needy and unattractive. Be genuine if you are apologetic but don’t have it come off as contrived and manipulative.
7. Playing the sympathy card – If the other person felt strongly enough that they dumped you I highly doubt they will care if you’re feeling bad. Trying to extort feelings my showing how vulnerable you are is a flawed strategy and incites pity instead of concern.
As you can see the program is based on logical and practical principles. While a lot of the principles seem like common sense the way that Jackson outlines them is clear and concise in a step by step format that allows you to apply them immediately.
I would highly recommend this for anyone, even someone who is simply feeling a bit of turmoil in a relationship. It is a healthy read, and I always feel that educating yourself is important. Check out the Magic of Making Up Program here. They have a money back guarantee and offer a special bonus that is genius although I can’t reveal what it is..(hint: you’ll really like it).
SEX? When you should have sex during the reconciliation process.
