signs of male attraction IS THE WAY A GUY LOOKS AT YOU HOW HE FEELS?
How do you know if that special guy is really into you? Can you look at him and tell if he likes you just by the way he moves or speaks. Wouldn’t it be great to figure out what he’s thinking? Well to begin with lets say you haven’t met a guy yet. Say you’re both at a club and you see him looking at you, well its pretty safe to assume that he likes you if he holds eye contact with you. Most guys will not hold eye contact with a girl they don’t like as they feel they would be leading them on. They will immediately look away and never look back. Now some guys who are shy will look at you and than look away when you look at them. If you see or feel them looking at you again this is a clear indication they like you.
Let’s take another scenario, say you are at a friend’s house party and you have been introduced to a guy and you two are talking. How will you know if the guy likes you? Some things to look for include him having his attention only on you. If he likes you he won’t feel the need to value scan the crowd to look for more beautiful girls. His focus will be on you and he will be somewhat in trance. Another clear sign to look for is if he lets his hands linger when he touch’s you or does he immediately remove them. Now at first he may feel awkward touching you but as your interaction continues he will generally be trying more and more to ‘accidentally’ touch you.
What are some other common signs of male attraction, well chivalry is a big one. Guys will be overly chivalrous with girls they like. This includes opening doors, pulling out chairs, offering to help or get you a drink, holding you close if there is danger. (e.g. at a club when the bouncer runs by) A guys body posture is a tough one, he may be more open and comfortable if he likes, than again he may be rigid and stiff if he’s nervous. I would base it more on what he does or his eye contact as above.
Another resource which I haven’t used but I hear is quite good is Catch Him and Keep Him it has a eBook and free newsletters with handy tips for becoming the kind of girl that guys chase. See my review here
Why Men Withdraw, And What To Do About It
February 1st, 2009 at 8:10 am
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Anyway, you should do your best ;)…